abhyasa
Practice, discipline — repeated effort, over a long period of time, without interruption, and with all earnestness.
vairagya
Non-attachment, freedom from desire — a letting go of the desire for our life or practice to unfold a certain way or to achieve certain results.
In The Yoga Sutras, Patañjali lists abhyasa and vairagya as the two key elements in producing a calm, clear mind.
Abhyasa requires us to keep holding on to our goal or vision (a peaceful mind, a healthy body) and to keep working towards that day after day. Vairagya requires us to be keenly aware of what's pulling us off course — usually our own mental noise — and to keep letting that go, over and over again.
To hang on and to let go. It can feel like a contradiction. Yet abhyasa and vairagya work together. To hold onto one thing, we often need to let go of other things.
Abhyasa means that we know the WHAT and the WHY — what we are aiming for, and why it's important — and we take consistent steps towards our goal. Vairagya means letting go of the HOW and WHEN and WHERE.
So, we're clear about what we want and set our sights high, with full faith in ourselves. We show up and take consistent actions towards our goals — small steps every day. At the same time, we accept life as it unfolds, trusting that it's for the best — even if we can't see or understand it. We let go of the inner noise and outer distractions, make the best decisions we can in the moment, and step boldly forward.
